小石头爸爸写给陈院长的信Little Stone, a letter from Dad to Dean Chan.转载2008-8-4

今天，女儿已经出生十天了，看着她睡梦中露出甜甜的笑脸，我的心头涌动着幸福和满足。女儿，你是我永远的小宝贝，我永远爱你!

Today, my daughter has been born for ten days, watching her sweet smile in her sleep, my heart filled with happiness and satisfaction. Daughter, you are my forever baby, I will always love you!

我与爱人2002年结婚，第一次发现怀孕，我们都非常激动和兴奋，但孕四十多天时，我爱人发现有少量出血，去医院检查做B超显示只有一个空囊，从医院回来没几天上厕所流出一个小血块。第一次怀孕以失败告终，当时并没感到非常痛苦，因为必竟还可以怀孕。大约一年多后，我爱人再次怀孕，这次我们非常小心，发现怀孕后马上隔天打黄体酮和促绒性激素保胎，但几乎还是上次怀孕的天数，又开始流血了，这次比上一次要痛苦的多，因为药物流产没流干净，又经历了一次非常痛苦的刮宫。我们这才引起警示，开始四处求医，做了大大小小上百次检查，包括内分泌、精液、血检、尿检、抗精子抗体、染色体、抗鳞脂、优生四项等等等等，但都没有发现有什么问题，真得有点心灰意冷。这时，听朋友说做淋巴免疫治疗效果很好，我们又看到了一丝希望，马上去专业医院做了免疫治疗，第三次怀孕还是挺有信心的，也打了黄体酮和促绒性激素，五十多天过去了，没有流血!去医院做B超看到了胎芽胎心!!!我们非常高兴，当时激动地直想哭，我们以为这样就成功了，可是快三个月时去医院产检，再次做B超时，医生说胚胎已经停育，这次彻底把我们打入了无底的深渊!我们沉浸在无比的痛苦和绝望中!包括双方父母和兄弟姐妹，这些年来陪伴我们一次次遭受不幸，这一次他们都劝我们别再生了，抱养一个算了。看着爱人一次次遭受精神和肉体上的双重打击，我也决定：不要孩子了，就这样两个人相依相偎过一生也挺好的，实在不行，就托人到福利院收养一个。

My wife and I were married in 2002 and first discovered that we were pregnant. We were all very excited and excited. However, when we were pregnant for more than 40 days, my wife discovered that there was a small amount of bleeding. She went to the hospital to check for a B ultrasound and showed that there was only one empty sac. A few days back from the hospital, a little blood clot came out of the bathroom. The first pregnancy ended in failure. At that time, it was not very painful because it would have to be pregnant. About a year later, my wife became pregnant again. This time we were very careful. We found out that immediately after the pregnancy, we had a progesterone and a velvet hormone to protect the fetus the next day. However, it was almost the number of days we had been pregnant. It began to bleed again. This time it was much more painful than the last time. Because the drug miscarriage did not flow clean, and experienced a very painful shaving palace. We started to alert and began to seek medical treatment everywhere, doing hundreds of tests, large and small, including endocrine, semen, blood tests, urine tests, anti-sperm antibodies, chromosomes, anti-scaly, eugenics, etc., but none of them found any problems. Really a little disheartened. At this time, listening to friends said that the effect of lymphatic immunotherapy is very good, we saw a glimmer of hope, immediately went to a professional hospital for immunotherapy, the third pregnancy is still quite confident, but also hit progesterone and velvet hormone, more than 50 days passed, no blood! Go to the hospital to do B Super to see the fetal Bud heart! Hey! Hey! We were very happy. At that time, we were excited and wanted to cry. We thought that this was Chenggongle. However, when we went to the hospital for a birth test for nearly three months, we did B overtime again. The doctor said that the embryo had stopped breeding. This time we completely entered the abyss! We are in agony and despair! Including both parents and brothers and sisters, all these years to accompany us to suffer, this time they have advised us not to regenerate, the adoption of one. I also decided not to have children. It is also good for two people to lean on each other for a lifetime. It is really not good. I will send someone to the welfare home to adopt one.

可我爱人不同意，说咱再到别的地方看看，实在不行再说。就这样，我们又去了济南的省立医院，找到了山东著名的妇产科专家王谢桐和高芹，其中也做了很多检查包括子宫造影，都没发现什么问题。这时，一件事情改变了我们一生的命运：当时我们在济南看病住在一个亲戚家里，亲戚是个大姐，姐夫曾经在北京呆过，说协和医院有一个专家好象是妇产科主任叫刘桂霞的对习惯性流产有研究，他帮忙打听说刘桂霞主任已经退体并应聘到一家叫新景安太的医院工作，我们不知道医院的具体地址便在网上查询，一看医院介绍，其对治疗习惯性流产的确头头是道。但我们还是半信半疑。

But my wife didn't agree, said we should go to another place, not to say. In this way, we went to the provincial hospital in JiNan and found the famous obstetrics and gynaecology experts Wangxietong and Gaoqin. Among them, we also did a lot of tests, including uterine imaging, and found no problems. At this time, one thing changed the fate of our lives: We had a doctor in Jinan and lived in a relative's house. The relative was a big sister. His brother-in-law had once stayed in Beijing and said that there was an expert in the Union Hospital who seemed to be the director of obstetrics and gynaecology named Liuguixia. There is research on habitual miscarriage. He helped to call to hear that director Liuguixia had retired and applied to a hospital called Xinjing Antai. We did not know the specific address of the hospital and asked online. Look at the hospital introduction. Its treatment of habitual miscarriage is indeed a good idea. But we're still a little skeptical.

真巧，我爱人为市里领导办理出国手续，要携资料去北京省驻京办事处办理，我随同前往。一切办理完毕后，我们去了当时在双桥附近的北京新景安太医院，接待我们的是王稚晖院长，她详细地看了我们这些年来看病的厚厚的资料，并看了子宫造影的片子说我爱人的子宫还有粘连，要我们做手术，术完可以马上回家。当时我感觉自己肯定遇上骗钱的骗子了，这个造影省里的两位专家都说没有任何问题，她一看就有问题了?还说需要做手术，我们就更不信了。这时王院长把陈凤林院长也请了来，陈院长看了后也马上说肯定有粘连，不信就做个宫腔镜。并要求我们先做个抗胚胎抗体，我想既然来了做就做吧，结果出来1：256，陈院长说问题就出在这个抗体上。因为不相信所以我们没有做手术，当天就坐车回家了。

What a coincidence, my wife for the city leaders to go abroad, to bring information to the Beijing provincial office to handle, I went with. After all this was done, we went to the Xinjingan hospital in Beijing, near Shuangqiao, where we were received by President Wangzhihui, who looked at the thick details of our visits over the years. And looked at the uterus film said that my lover's uterus is still sticky, want us to operate, can go home immediately after surgery. At that time, I felt that I must have met a fraudster. Two experts in this department said that there was no problem. She had a problem? He said he needed surgery, and we didn't believe it. At this time, Dean Wang invited Dean Chenfenglin to come. After Dean Chen saw it, he immediately said that there must be adhesion, and he did not believe it. And asked us to do an anti-embryo antibody first, I think since it came to do it, the results came out 1:256, Chen said the problem is on this antibody. We didn't have the surgery because we didn't believe it, so we drove home that day.

可是我们心里越来越不踏实，我爱人坚持做宫腔镜，说不管是不是骗人的做了就知道了，就这样我们又前往省立医院做了宫腔镜检查，结果出来：的确象新景安太说的那样。这我们才开始相信安太的技术了，的确一级一个水平啊。我和爱人展开了很少时间的讨论和商量到底去不去安太，最后决定：去!最后一次机会了，再失败我们就不要孩子了!去的理由有三：一是这次子宫造影的经历说明安太的医生的确有一定水平，二是既然刘桂霞那么有名望的医生都在安太说明安太并不是骗人的，而且是比较专业的医院，第三我们实在没有别的咱可走了，我们实在不想再冒险了，实在不想再经历一次那种撕心裂肺的痛苦了!!!

But our hearts became more and more uneasy. My wife insisted on doing hysteroscopy and said that whether or not it was deceptive, we went to the provincial hospital to have a hysteroscopy. The results came out: It was exactly like Xinjingan said. That's when we began to believe in the technology of Anta. It's really a level one. My lover and I had very little time to discuss and discuss whether to go to An Tai, and finally decided: Go! One last chance, one more failure and we don't have any children! There are three reasons for going: First, the experience of the Uterography shows that Anta's doctors really have a certain level, and second, since Liuguixia's famous doctors are in Anta, Anta shows that Anta is not a liar, but is a more professional hospital. Third, we really have no other way to go, we really do not want to take any more risks, really do not want to experience that kind of heartbreaking pain! Hey! Hey!

我和爱人请了假于去年七月初去了北京，现在的安太已经不在双桥，搬到了嘉园北，并改名叫安太嘉园妇产科医院，我们因为预约了陈凤林院长马上和他见了面，陈院长亲自为我爱人做了一个子宫纵膈切除的小手术，手术一直没感觉疼痛，术后打了一瓶点滴当天晚上就下床活动了，接下来就是抽我的血做成八针疫苗，在等疫苗的过程中我们逛了北京城，心情相当好，因为在与医院的医生相处过程中感觉到了他们的热情和医疗水平，比较安心。在安太打完第一针疫苗后我们就回家了。

My wife and I took a leave to go to Beijing in early July last year. Now that Antai is no longer at Shuangqiao, she moved to Jiayuan North and changed her name to Antai Jiayuan Obstetrics and Gynecology Hospital. We immediately met with Chenfenglin because we had an appointment. Dean Chen personally performed a small operation for my wife's hysterectomy. The operation has not felt any pain. After the operation, he took a bottle of drip and got out of bed that night. The next step was to take my blood and make an eight-shot vaccine. While waiting for the vaccine, we visited Beijing City and were in a very good mood because we felt their enthusiasm and medical level during the process of dealing with the hospital doctors. We went home after the first shot of the vaccine at Anda.

七月份治疗，八月份就怀孕了!而且按陈院长说的：不用紧张，不用刻意保胎，该上班上班，注意休息就行了。可我们还是请了半个月的家在家休息，去医院做B超看见了原始心管博动，我们非常高兴，我爱人就去上班了。在医院检查过程中，碰到有担心的，我就打电话咨询陈院长，每次他都很耐心地给我解答并鼓励我，所以我们一直非常有信心。一切都很顺利，二个月过去了，三个月过去了，一次次产检医生都说很好很正常。我爱人肚子越来越大，小宝宝在肚子里活蹦乱跳。一转眼冬天、春天过去了，夏天来了，预产期越来越近，我们的心情越来越紧张，因为毕竟我爱人年龄大了，今年已经30多了，再说流了那么多次产，还做了手术，不知道宝宝健康不健康。我们请示了安太医生决定在预产期前五天剖腹产，5月10日，小宝宝诞生了，6斤2两，而且一出生没被打屁股就会哭，哭完了就会笑，身上肉滚滚的没有皱纹，非常可爱，各项评估满分十分!我给女儿起名叫小石头，希望她结结实实的。

Treatment in July, pregnancy in August! And according to Dean Chen said: do not be nervous, do not want to protect the tire deliberately, should go to work, pay attention to rest on. But we still invited the home of half a month to rest at home, to the hospital to do B Chao saw the original heart tube movement, we are very happy, my lover went to work. In the course of the hospital examination, when I met with worried, I called Dean Chen. Each time he was very patient with me and encouraged me, so we have always been very confident. Everything is very smooth, two months have passed, three months have passed, again and again the doctor said very good and normal. My wife's belly is getting bigger and bigger, and the baby is jumping around in it. Winter and spring have passed away, summer has come, the expected date of childbirth is getting closer and closer, our mood is getting more and more nervous, because after all, my lover is old, this year has more than 30 years, and besides, so many births have been lost and surgery has been done. Do not know baby health is not healthy. We asked Dr. Antai to decide to have a Caesarean section five days before the expected date of birth. On May 10, the baby was born. It was 6 pounds and 2 taels, and she cried when she was not spanked. When she finished crying, she laughed. The flesh was rolling without wrinkles. It was very cute. Each assessment is out of ten! I named my daughter Little Stone, hoping she would be strong.

我们太激动了，不知如何表达我们的感激之情!我希望习惯性流产的患者们别再一次次冒险，别再走那么多弯路，安太治疗虽然贵了点，但是专业、成功率高，我记住陈院长说得一句话：别算钱多少，关键要治得好!我希望越来越多的人实现心愿，获得幸福，不要再犹豫不决，选择安太，选择希望!选择安太，选择幸福!

We are so excited that we don't know how to express our gratitude! I hope that patients with habitual miscarriage do not take risks again and again. Do not go so many detours. Although Antai treatment is expensive, but the professional and high success rate, I remember Chen Dean's sentence: Don't count the money. The key is to cure it! I hope that more and more people will realize their wishes and obtain happiness. Do not hesitate to choose Antai and choose hope! Choose Antai, choose happiness!

Little rock, Dad.小石头爸爸

08.5.19